Sunday, October 19, 2008

Fixing feet

Here is Trent with casts on his legs. This is the second set of casts to fix his club feet. He got his first set on Monday, Oct. 6 on his first doctor's visit. He got his second set on Monday, Oct. 13. He also was scheduled for an MRI, but did not go through with it. He had the sniffles so the anesthesiologist decided to postpone it until Nov. 26. They wanted to check his spine with the MRI because the doctor had a similar case with another child who turned out to have a spine problem. He doesn't think Trent has this problem but he wants to check just in case.

Trent will have this set of casts until next week, Monday, Oct. 27. He will probably have a couple more sets of casts. After that he will probably need some surgery on his feet and then be in some braces for a few years.

Sunday, September 21, 2008

Baptism

Today, Sunday Sept. 21, Trent was adopted again. This time he was adopted into God's family through baptism. It was a busy day at church as he was one of three children to be baptized in the late service. We are very happy now that he is God's child as well as ours.

Here we are in our matching attire from China (except for Kyle - it is just his tie). Trent's sponsors are his aunt, Connie Meyer and his uncle and aunt, Ryan and Dawn Hollman. They weren't able to be with us physically but we thank them (and everyone else) for their prayers of support.

Friday, September 5, 2008

Safe at Home

Just a quick note to let you know that we arrived safely back home.

Wednesday, September 3, 2008

Going to sleep

Q: What is more difficult than getting one child to sleep at bedtime?
A: Getting two children to sleep, especially when they are in the same room.

We are definitely having our bedtime challenges on this trip. On his first night with us, Trent went out fairly soon, but he had a big day then. He hasn't gone to sleep quite as well since. We try to get him to sleep at 8 pm but it has been 9 or even 10 o'clock when he has finally zonked. Of course, he is not quiet when awake which doesn't help his big sister fall asleep either. She also wonders why she has to go asleep when her little brother isn't.

In our bedtime struggles we did discover one thing. The other night we tried to cover him with a little blanket to encourage sleep. Instead he pulls the blanket over his head and starts to play peek-a-boo. At least he is responding to us and is developed enough to play this game.

Tuesday, September 2, 2008

Red Couch

Not much happened yesterday, Tuesday, Sept. 2. We had the consulate appointment in the morning. Usually none of the family has to go; it is just the guide. However, we made a little goof on one of the official papers and it just happened to be one that is notarized so it couldn't be corrected. So, Linda went along with the guide to clear things up. There was no problem and all of our American paperwork went through. We did a little shopping in the afternoon, but mostly took things easy. Everyone is eager to finish here and head on home.

This morning, Wednesday, Sept. 3, we took a stroll over to the White Swan hotel to take pictures on one of their red couches. The red couch picture is an adoption tradition. In China red is a lucky color.

Here is our new family on the red couch.


Here we are in front of the waterfall in the White Swan lobby.

Trent pictures

We flew from XiAn to Guangzhou on Sunday afternoon. Every American adopting from China has to go through Guangzhou because this is where the American consulate is that issues visas for the adopted children. There is not a lot to see in here and by this time most people are tired of sightseeing or just plain tired. We are no exception. We will be here three full days to finish the American side of the paperwork, mostly for the immigration visa.

On Monday we took Trent to a clinic for a quick checkup as required for his visa. It is also good to double check his medical report from the orphanage. It is a fairly quick process as they have a lot of children to process. There are three 'stations' to check his various medical conditions such as weight, height, hearing, sight, etc. There were no surprises. Obviously his club feet checked out. They also indicated he was somewhat developmentally delayed as was stated in the orphanage medical. The doctor told us that it is related to his club feet. He is not able to walk so that part of his brain is not yet developed. Also, it has delayed some of the motor skills with his hands and arms as the area of the brain that controls these is interconnected with the area that controls the feet and legs. It took a little less than an hour, including the short walk from our hotel. We were a little surprised at how quick it was. With Nora we waited for quite a while at the clinic and there were a lot more children. Since Nora's adoption there have been fewer American adoptions from China and we figure adoptive couples did not want to travel during the Olympics.

That same day, Linda and Connie went shopping for a new outfit for Trent. The little guy certainly looks sharp. Linda also got a new outfit for herself, a matching dress for Nora, and a matching tie for Kyle.

On a less pleasant note, Grandma was not feeling well on Monday. We were somewhat worried about dehydration so Grandpa and our guide took her to an American clinic in the city. The doctor thought it was a virus and gave some medicine to help with the symptoms, not much else they could do except wait it out in bed. Today on Tuesday she is feeling much better but is still resting up. We hope she is well enough to attend the swearing in ceremony at the American consulate on Wednesday afternoon.

Monday, September 1, 2008

XiAn city wall

On Sunday, Aug. 31, our plane to Guangzhou was not scheduled to leave until 3 pm so we had some time in the morning to see one more sight in XiAn, the city wall. The current wall was rebuilt in 1370 AD. It has been kept up over the years and is in very good condition today. There are four original gates although they have added several more in modern times to improve traffic.

This is one of the guard houses above one of the original gates.

As you can see, this wall is fairly level and goes for quite a ways. It forms a complete rectangle around where the old city was. We only walked for about 40 minutes, 20 minutes one way and then back.

The van ride to the airport was interesting also. Our guide pointed out a number of burial mounds visible from the highway. Most are for lower level officials and generals. The countryside around XiAn seems almost littered with the mounds. Probably only a small fraction have been explored.

Terracotta Army

Saturday, Aug. 30, was a big day. We drove a little ways east from XiAn to see the Terracotta Army. It was ordered built by the first Chinese emperor in about 210 BC. He was the first one to conquer several neighboring kings to form an empire. He also had some of the walls of the northern kingdoms connected to begin what was to become the Great Wall.

First we stopped at a local factory that makes terracotta souvenirs. They make reproductions of the soldiers at all sizes from very small to lifesize. They use clay from the same area as the original army. First the wet clay is placed into a mold. In the picture you can see a few of the small molds which are the white rectangles. The lifesized ones require a mold of several pieces. The heads on the lifesized ones are made separately. Next in the process, excess clay is trimmed off. It is then allowed to air dry. Finally they are baked. The smallest ones are baked for about a day. The lifesized ones take a lot longer. They require multiple bakings. After each time, any cracks are repaired and then the figure is rebaked. The process is repeated until no more cracks appear.

Next we went to the sight of the actually warriors. There are three different pits on the sight, each is where the soldiers were originally placed and found. The main pit is the largest and has mostly infantrymen and chariots. The chariots were made of wood so they did not last. The only thing left of them were horses and charioteers.

Like a lot of early rulers, the first emperor wanted this clay army to serve him in the afterlife. It is buried a little ways from his tomb. (His tomb has never been opened.) This army was stored in an underground bunker. A later emperor who disliked the first emperor's family sent his real life soldiers into the bunkers to destroy the terracotta warriors and burn the bunkers. After a while the location was forgotten. In the 1970's some local farmers were digging a well and came across pieces of the soldiers and reported the find to the authorities. Three of the four farmers are still alive and frequently visit the museum to autograph photo books. We saw one of them during our visit. Because all the warriors were broken, they are carefully being pieced back together like an enormous jigsaw puzzle.

Shortly after the accidental discovery of pit 1, scientist located pits 2 and 3. Pit 2 contains archers and cavalry. Pit 3 is much smaller and contains generals and other officers. It is sort of a war room for the terracotta army.

Near the same area they also found two bronze chariots that were half lifesized. They carefully put them back together and display them in anther building on site.

After seeing the Terracotta Army, we visited the HuaQing hot springs a short distance away. Baths were built in this location by another emperor at about 757 AD. He would visit them in the winter with his favorite concubine. The picture shows the crab-apple flower bath. It is also know as the concubine bath because this is were she bathed. There are four other baths in this complex. Unfortunately the hot springs are slowly drying up so there is no water left in some of the baths.
We finished the day with the Tang Dynasty Dinner Show. It had traditional music and dancing from that era. It was very interesting and enjoyable although it made for a long day.

Sunday, August 31, 2008

Wild Goose Pagoda

On Friday, Aug. 29, we were awake at 5:30 am to catch our flight from Lanzhou to XiAn. It is about an hour drive just to get to the Lanzhou airport. We did get a box breakfast to eat on the ride to the airport. It is just an hour plane ride as XiAn is in a neighboring province.

After checking into the hotel, we had lunch, and then took a van to the Giant Wild Goose Pagoda. This is a Buddhist site built in 652 AD to hold artifacts that a local Chinese monk brought back from India. He walked to India, studied Buddhism for several years, and then traveled back to XiAn to teach the locals.

On the pagoda grounds we attended a talk on Chinese calligraphy and painting. They also displayed some of the local artists paintings from very traditional to somewhat more contemporary.

For supper we had a dumpling feast. They put every type of food into the dumplings from chicken and pork to vegetables, and even cooked walnuts. It was very delicious.

Thursday, August 28, 2008

This and that around Lanzhou


On Thursday morning, Aug. 28, we checked out some sights within walking distance of our hotel. We first stopped at the city temple. Nearly all Chinese cities have a city temple. The one in Lanzhou has been converted into an open air market place although it still has the temple architecture.

We stopped in a store to buy some stamping stones for Nora and Trent. These are rectangular stones with a person's name carved into the bottom. You press them in ink and then use the stamp instead of a signature. This is still the way most Chinese people make their mark on official documents.

After the temple we went to a nearby Chinese Christian Church. It is obviously a government approved one, but still neat to connect with others who share our faith. The inside is fairly simple with wooden stadium seats instead of pews. There is a stage decorated with dried flowers and a simple alter. On Sunday mornings they worship 3,000 people in two services and have evening classes every night except Mondays.

This afternoon we are taking it easy at the hotel. Tomorrow we will catch an early morning flight to Xi'An. Trent is doing well. He did not eat much the first day but has a healthy appetite since. We are grateful he is sleeping through the night although it takes a little while for him to wind down in the evening at bedtime. He is starting to feel more comfortable with his new mom and dad and even his big sister.

The Great Wall

What is a visit to China without seeing the Great Wall. I know I am a little late on this as our visit was last Saturday, Aug. 23, but better late than never. It is about an hour's drive from Beijing. On our way there we visited a jade factory. There are many good sources of jade in the Beijing area. They had all sorts of objects from jewelry to statues. One interesting piece is a multilayered ball that they make from a single piece. It is called a family ball where each layer represents a different generation. We bought a small jade dog as Trent's Chinese zodiac is the dog. From the jade factory we headed the rest of the way to the Great Wall.

Here we are on the Great Wall of China. As you can see, this section is in a vary hilly region.

The steps up the Wall can be quite steep and the spacing between steps is uneven. We made it up to the first guard tower on the hill. Parts of the Wall were started over 2,000 years ago, although I don't think out section is quite that old. Still, it is amazing to be walking on a structure that was built before the discover of America by the Europeans.

After climbing around on the Wall for a couple hours we stopped at a Friendship store for lunch. These are special stores for foreign tourist and have an interesting selection of handmade Chinese wares. From there we went to the Emperor's Summer Palace. It has actually been in use for much longer than the Forbidden City. They have a quite large man-made lake, impressive as it was all dug by hand.

On the way back to the hotel we passed by the Bird's Nest, the Olympic stadium for Beijing. It was the day before the closing ceremonies. You can see the Olympic torch still burning in the middle of the stadium.

Wednesday, August 27, 2008

Gansu Provincial Museum

Yesterday, Wednesday, Aug. 27, we visited the Gansu Provincial Museum. We were very impressed. It is comparable to some of the better quality museums in the US. It was very clean with updated displays, and even had English as well as Chinese descriptions. There are some displays on dinosaurs and early mammals, but the main displays are on the silk road which ran through Lanzhou. The silk road was the main trading route to bring silk to the Middle East and Europe. It is also one of the reasons there is a Muslim popular in Lanzhou (although it is only 2%). One rule of thumb is that anywhere there is a Muslim popular in China is a place that was involved in trade.


The centerpiece of the museum is a bronze horse found in a tomb that is about 2,000 years old. It is an interesting design depicting how fast the horses were. It has only one hoof on the ground and this is on the back of a bird that both symbolizes speed and helps to stabilizes the statue. We have bought a smaller replica to remind Trent of his home province.


After the museum we went to a replica waterwheel near the river. It was designed by a local inventor many years ago. At one time they were very common along the river. They are used to supply water for irrigation.


Near the waterwheel, they showed us sheepskin bladder rafts that were used to transport goods across the river in ancient times before there were bridges. Lanzhou was where the silk road crossed the Yellow river.

We spent the rest of the day relaxing at the hotel. For supper we went to a local restaurant and were served a Delicious mutten-filled pastry as well as other interesting dishes.

Tuesday, August 26, 2008

Five-Spring Mountain Park

On Tuesday morning, Aug. 26 we visited the Five-Spring Mountain Park in Lanzhou. There is no more Chinese paperwork for us to do. There are still some for the Chinese officials and our guide to finish. Cheif of these is Trent's Chinese passport. That takes about five days so it's the main reason we need to stick around Lanzhou. While we are waiting the guide will show us some of the local sights. Today it is this park.

The local legend is that a Chinese general was sent to this region to scout things out and fight the nomads. The water from the Yellow river was not acceptable so he poked his spear in the gound five times and springs came out from the spear holes.

Here is the entrence to the park.

We encountered several locals practicing Chinese yo-yo's (also known as 'diabolos'). They tried to teach Connie, Linda, and Grandpa how to do them, with a big emphasis on try. Connie and Linda did buy a couple of the yo-yo's.

Next we saw a woman practicing kung-fu, not the movie type. She gave us a demonstration with a folding fan.

There was a Buddist temple in the middle of the park. It was interesting seeing the monks, the statues, and a large container for burning incense.

The final place in the park was a zoo. It had most of the typical animals, but in addition had a real live panda. At least we assumed it was alive. When we visited, he was sleeping and not in a very flashy position as you can see from the picture.

For lunch, we ate at a beef noodle restaraunt. One of the appetizer was yak meet. It did not taste like chicken, more like beef. We had the afternoon free to rest and relax back at the hotel.

Monday, August 25, 2008

Forbidden City

It is Monday afternoon, Aug. 25, and for the first time in several days we don't have anything on our schedule, neither touring nor adoption. It is a good time to get up-to-date on our travels. The last post we left you with, before Trent, was at lunch on Friday, Aug. 22. After lunch we went to Tienanmen Square. This is a big public square in front of the Forbidden City. On its other side is Mao's tomb. This year they have a lot of other displays to celebrate the Olympic games.

Here is our group in front of the Beijing Olympic games symbol in Tienanmen Square.

From there we entered the Forbidden City through the famous gate with Mao's portrait. It is called the Forbidden City because only the Emperor and his officials were allowed there. It's construction began in 1406 and it served as the residence for 24 emperors. We are amazed at walking through a place with so much history. It has been in existence since before Columbus arrived in America. Nora was very curious about it. She wanted to know where the 'king' was.

Here is the Emperor's throne. (No, they would not let us sit in it.)

After the Forbidden City we went to a Chinese tea ceremony. We tried about six different types of tea. The lady there should the different ways in which each type is brewed.

The final event of the day was a Chinese acrobat show. They had contortionists, women doing amazing things on bicycles, and some high-flying, death-defying acrobatics. There was some audience participation as their seating was not designed for people over six foot. We finished the day with another hearty supper that included Peking duck. (It did not have the head.)

Chinese paperwork

On Monday morning, Aug. 25 we went to the Chinese government adoption office in Lanzhou. On the way there we stopped to get photographs of Trent for his Chinese passport and a family photo for the adoption paperwork. At the adoption office we met with several officials. Also the director and an assistant director of Trent's orphanage were there. We filled out several different forms with the same information. They needed our thumbprints (in red ink) on one of the documents and also Trent's handprint. Usually they get the child's footprint, but with Trent's condition the hand was easier.

Trent was not happy about putting his hand on the ink.

Here is his handprint.

The orphanage director presented us with a picture book from them. (This is the same man who had protected Trent during the van accident.) This is very unusual. This did not happen with Nora and we have never heard of anything similar. We will have to get it translated.

We got to ask them about Trent's life in the orphanage. It is in the city of QingYang in the southeastern part of the Gansu province. It is a relatively small orphanage. There are about 57 children, all of them are special needs. Of these children, 36 of then are younger than 2 years old. Ours was the 61st foreign adoption in the Gansu province this year. It was only the 4th international adoption from the QingYang orphanage ever. This is the first adoption for the Harrah Agency from this orphanage.

Trent usually takes a nap at about 10 am and another at about noon. He goes to bed at about 8 pm in the evening. He is still taking a bottle with a mixture of rice flour and formula. At about 6 pm the children of the orphanage usually watch a TV children's program. Trent does not have any toy he prefers, but he does like things with the colors green, red, and yellow. The orphanage gave him the name of Chang Yu. In Chinese Chang means prosperous and Yu means jade. We have decided that his middle name will be Changyu in order to help him remember his country of origin.

A bit of a scare

Thank you all for your prayers. We had a little longer wait then what we were expecting, so we didn't get to post last night. Trent's orphanage is quite a ways away from Lanzhou, at least a 6 hour drive. While we were waiting for them to show up, our guide got a cell phone call that they had a flat tire about an hour from Lanzhou. He went out to help them. Turns out it was a little more serious than just a flat. A tire blew and the van flipped. There were a couple people hurt but not seriously. Trent was just fine, just a little bit shaken. The orphanage director was holding him and kept him safe during the accident. Again, thank you for your prayers.

We finely got Trent at about 8pm on Sunday, Aug. 24, 2008. Here he is coming in to our hotel room with one of the orphanage helpers.
Like all gotcha's, Trent wasn't very happy with his new mother at first.

Dad didn't do any better.
Trent did calm down later. He slept very well that night and seems no worse for wear after all the excitement. We are very, very grateful he is with us now.

Sunday, August 24, 2008

Nearly time

Sorry we didn't updated yesterday. We were a little worn out from touring and probably still from jet lag, so we went to bed rather early. I will post some more from our Beijing tours later.

As I type we are in the hotel in Lanzhou waiting for them to bring Trent. It should be within the next half hour or so. They were suppose to be here earlier but phoned that they had a flat tire. Our guide drove out to help them.

Needless to say, we are just a bit nervous. We are double checking our paperwork and making sure we have the proper gifts for the caregivers.

Hopefully we will post a picture of our new family after things have settled down.

Friday, August 22, 2008

Lunch



After the silk factory we had lunch at a local restaurant. The food included bamboo chicken (which was cooked in actual bamboo), mushroom soup, and a lot of other Chinese delicacies. Everything was delicious.

Nora practiced using chopsticks.

Silk factory


After the Temple of Heaven we went to a silk factory. They take cocoons from silk worms, soak them in water, and then unravel them. Each one is made up of a single thread. Sometimes two worms make cocoons together. When that happens they can't unravel them so they stretch them out and use them in a silk blanket. Here is our group trying their hand at stretching silk. Of course they also offered silk products for us to purchase, and we didn't want to appear unfriendly.

Temple of Heaven


Our first day have been busy but good. The breakfast at the hotel was mostly western with a little local flavor. You can ask my dad and Connie about the chicken feet. (No that is not a euphemism.) Our fist sight seeing was at the Temple of Heaven. This is where the Emperor came twice a year to pray to the gods for a good harvest and to sacrifice animals.

Near the temple is where a lot of retired citizens get together. They gather with others and do a lot of activities such as playing cards, exercising, and sing. These two ladies are doing some karaoke.

This photo shows where the emperor stood to do his sacrifices. Here is our little empress with her grandparents. You can see the top of the Temple of Heaven in the background.

Arrived

First, for all of you who are wondering, we have arrived safe and sound in Beijing. The last connecting from Tokyo to Beijing was a little delayed, but we arrived only a half hour late at about 10 pm local time. It was about midnight by the time we got settled into the hotel and were ready for sleep. All the luggage arrived with us, too. The hotel is ok but could be better. It is a little stuffy in the rooms as the air conditioning could be better. The beds are "solid" to put it kindly. It is the best we can do with the Olympics still running. Despite this everyone got a good first night sleep.

Monday, August 18, 2008

Characters


This will be Trent's new family: his big sister Nora, his dad Kyle and his mom Linda.

Nora Noel Hollman is 4 1/2 years old. She spent her first year of life in an orphanage in the city of HengYang in the Hunan province of China. She came into our family on December 6, 2004, just a few days past her first birthday. Nora loves to talk. She is a people person who is always squeezing her way into being the center of attention. She likes to ride her bike, her scooter, be pulled in her wagon, or just go for a walk. She also likes to swim, especially with her mom, and can put her head all the way under. Nora enjoys singing, coloring, and playing games. A typical four-year-old, there is not much she doesn't like doing (except maybe listening to mom and dad).

Kyle Willis Hollman is a research scientist in the Biomedical Engineering Department at the University of Michigan. His specialty is ultrasonic imaging which he is using to measure the elastic properties of various tissues in the eye. Your typical nerd, he enjoys science fiction and fantasy, both in books and movies. In the fall he runs a fantasy football league that includes (mostly male) family and friends. At church he sings bass in the choir and occasionally teaches an adult Bible study on Sunday mornings. He is chief photographer and pizza delivery boy for Linda's church activities. He also enjoys being dragged to social functions by his dear and lovely wife.

Linda Marie Hollman is director of outreach, assimilation, and women's ministries at Christ Our Savior Lutheran Church in Livonia, Michigan. In addition, she sings soprano in the church choir. In her spare time she likes reading and sewing. She has a strange addiction to garage sales which, as addictions go, is mostly harmless. Her other hobby is travel. She has been to 5 of the 7 continents only missing Australia and Antarctica. For some reason she wants to stop at 6.

These are the characters that will be a big part of Trent's life for a long time, God willing.

Wednesday, August 13, 2008

Satellite Photos

Trent's home province is Gansu. It's capital is Lanzhou where we will go to get him. Here is an interesting satellite photo of Lanzhou. As you can see from the photo, it is rather squeezed into a mountain valley. The upper part of the Yellow River flows through the center of town. Trent's orphanage is in QingYang, still in Gansu province but a ways away from Lanzhou. I found an interesting satellite photo of terraced farming near QingYang. And here is an regular photo of some different terraced farming.

Saturday, August 9, 2008

Beginnings

This is Trent. He was born in China and has spent the first couple years of his life in an orphanage in the city of QingYang in the Gansu province. He was born with club feet. Other than that he is in fairly good health. The orphanage gave him the name of Qing Chang Yu. According to their reports he is generally a quiet little boy. That is about all the information we know about him, except for one more thing. He needs a family.

This is where we come into the picture.
On August 20, 2008 we will board a plane in Detroit, MI and fly to Minneapolis, MN. There we will be joined by one pair of gandparents and an aunt. From there all of us will fly to Tokyo, Japan, change planes, and head to Beijing, China. We will spend a few days there touring and getting adjusted to the time change. On Sunday, August 24 we will board another plane and fly from Beijing to Lanzhou, the capital of the Gansu province. After we settle into the hotel, at about 4pm, they will bring Trent to us there. He will be united with his new family. We will spend a few days in and around Lanzhou while all the paperwork is finished. From there we are taking a short trip to the city of XiAn in a neighboring province. This place has the tomb of one of the first Chinese emperors with the famous terra cotta army. After taking in the sights there, we fly to the city of Gaungzhou in the southern part of China. It is just a little ways north of Hong Kong. All Chinese adoptions from the U.S. have to come to the U.S. consulate here to obtain the proper paperwork for bringing home their children. Finally on Thursday, September 4 we will board a plane for the return home with our new son. After stops in Tokyo and Minneapolis (to drop off grandparents and aunt) we will arrive back in Detroit. And then the real adventure begins.

That is the story for now. Over the next month we hope to keep everyone up-to-date on our experiences throughout this trip on this blog. Check in regularly. Posting may be light until the trip begins. During the travels we hope to post daily.